Once upon a time, there was a girl who was taking a break from studying for a chemistry final. She was thinking of a lot of things while she was studying and she felt like she should post a blog to talk about something that was plaguing her mind.
She wanted to talk about sickening clingy relationships. When someone cannot even move without their significant other being aware of every move, that was too clingy for her taste. She did not understand why some people would let their boyfriend or girlfriend dictate what they could or could not do. Not even in a controlling manner, but just that they couldn't do anything without their partner knowing about it. She also didn't understand why once a girl starts dating a boy, she forgets about all her friends. Not to say that this was happening to her, but that it was just a fact that she was noticing. She believed in having independence even when in a relationship. Mostly because of their age. Teenagers did not need to be spending every waking second with their boyfriend/girlfriend and being so intense about the whole thing. She wanted to know why dating couldn't just be fun and why it had to be so serious all the time, where once a person started dating someone, then their whole life revolved around that person until they broke up. She didn't want a clingy relationship. If that's the only kind of relationships there were in the teenage years then she figured she was probably better off not in one at all. She also realized that she just wanted to have fun and be happy, and if a relationship ruined that, then she didn't want it right now. Maybe later, when life was more serious, but at the peak of her teenage years when life is still kind of easy and fun - why would she want to ruin that?
That's all she wished to elaborate on. She felt like writing another short story, but definitely did not have the time what with studying for finals and applying for scholarships and other random things. Another time then,
- Lo
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